tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7193201105056114348.post6445879980626736616..comments2023-08-28T01:24:31.939+12:00Comments on Treacy Family: TRUST!Jaz from Treacy Familyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16497699735018237014noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7193201105056114348.post-86549264982399416742010-09-16T13:29:53.670+12:002010-09-16T13:29:53.670+12:00One of the stages in all of this you will go throu...One of the stages in all of this you will go through is grief. People dont just grieve when someone passes.<br /> We grieve when marriages die, when we have to give up our home that we loved, in this phase of your life you will grieve for what has changed within you. It is individual, it is yours and yours alone as no one else is walking in your shoes right now but you.<br /> We can say we are here, we understand on some level, we can envisage walking in your shoes, but we are not you. <br />You are right when you talk about the loss of trust, you have been betrayed by your own body. Its the coulda, shoulda, woulda's that take over at times.<br /> The fear, anger, sadness, etc may overwhelm at times and that is grief, your mind body, spirit, whatever is doing what it should, it is sensing loss and feeling it.<br /> In this sense although overwhelming at times, your body is reacting normally.<br /> You will in one way or another go through this cycle and it will become a journey of changes. <br />In time it will lessen, become easier and you will enjoy life as you did before, but differently because these things do change us, hopefully for the better in some small way.<br /> A brilliant post, raw and honest, big hugs.<br />xoxoxMEDICALBOOBOOShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12238357586852121228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7193201105056114348.post-64390670903400990352010-09-16T08:24:04.396+12:002010-09-16T08:24:04.396+12:00http://www.fabfeistyandfifty.com/2009/11/healing-p...http://www.fabfeistyandfifty.com/2009/11/healing-powers.html<br /><br />xxFi from Four Paws and Whiskershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11217307759511472654noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7193201105056114348.post-73362635127530831232010-09-16T08:04:02.314+12:002010-09-16T08:04:02.314+12:00Just wish you didn't have to live with the fea...Just wish you didn't have to live with the fear, but you are handling it wonderfully. We take so much for granted....<br />Soon you will be able to enjoy the uncertainty of the aftershocks too :) Can't wait to see you all....<br />xxFi from Four Paws and Whiskershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11217307759511472654noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7193201105056114348.post-83287851157693981792010-09-15T17:02:28.918+12:002010-09-15T17:02:28.918+12:00I would suggest that the fact that you recognise t...I would suggest that the fact that you recognise the source of the fear that has made you question trust and that you can share it is a large part of your battle in overcoming that fear. Would it work to compartmentalise your trust/mistrust? Some are common to all of us. Eliminate them. Then say 'I'm doing all that I can to help my body. I can do no more. I have to trust it so that I can get on with my life.' <br /><br />I wish you well.Graham Edwardshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11196744947133121475noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7193201105056114348.post-56903572684752431712010-09-15T13:58:36.815+12:002010-09-15T13:58:36.815+12:00Hey Jaz
I can really appreciate how scary things m...Hey Jaz<br />I can really appreciate how scary things must have been for you and your family over the last few weeks. And yip, when you write it all out like that it sure is amazing how we do have to put so much trust into our everyday lives. I live by the saying fear paralyses faith but even better faith/trust paralyses fear.<br />It's the only way to live else we can be too fearful to really live! <br />hmmmmm hope my ramblings make sense.<br />Thinking of you today and hoping the 'scaries' ease up alot for you.<br />xoWidgehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16699707227049240330noreply@blogger.com